“Do the Unright Thing: Memoir of a People Pleaser” by Steve Fredlund is a captivating exploration of the author’s personal journey, artfully chronicling the struggles and triumphs of a life spent trying to please others. As someone who has often grappled with the same impulse, I was naturally drawn to this book. However, what truly piqued my interest was the fact that the author hailed from my hometown, sparking hopes of finding fond references to familiar people and places.

While “Do the Unright Thing” did offer glimpses of nostalgia, such as a delightful tale of local Pamida shopping adventures, it exceeded my expectations by transcending the confines of geographic familiarity. Steve Fredlund masterfully accomplishes his goal of crafting a narrative that resonates with a broader audience. Through his candid storytelling, he invites readers to reflect on their own experiences, no matter where they come from.

Fredlund’s memoir delves into the universal struggles of hiding personal passions due to societal judgment and making life choices influenced by external expectations. Many of his anecdotes, such as choosing a college that may not have been his dream school but seemed to meet the expectations of others, struck a chord with me, as they mirrored events in my own life. His ability to articulate the impact of people-pleasing on his own existence, the pivotal moments that led to his realization, and the steps he took to live authentically makes this memoir a powerful and relatable journey of self-discovery.

Ultimately, “Do the Unright Thing” serves as an invaluable guide for those grappling with the incessant urge to please others. It is also a compelling read for anyone seeking a firsthand account of an individual’s evolution over time. Steve Fredlund’s memoir is not only a testament to personal growth but also an illuminating narrative that encourages readers to embark on their path to authenticity.

I wholeheartedly recommend “Do the Unright Thing: Memoir of a People Pleaser” to anyone looking for an insightful and relatable exploration of the complexities of people-pleasing and the journey towards self-fulfillment. Steve Fredlund’s words will undoubtedly resonate with a wide audience, leaving readers inspired to embrace their true selves.